Today I spent some hours working on my marketing and specifically on social marketing. In the past my energies have gone in the article-marketing department. I can write fairly quickly and that’s why I use the article funnel for my sites more than anything else - but I am being re educated into the Social marketing and its fascinating as well as a threatening to me at this stage but I will get there.
‘What’s important’- is the theme of this short note. This morning early I had a phone call asking me if would visit the hospital to minister to a dying friend. I am a retired minister of the Anglican church and I try to stay retired and pursue other things these days but in this case I knew I had to put my hand up and go and do the things I had been trained and worked in through Army chaplaincy, Industrial chaplaincy and parish ministry.
He spoke briefly some moments lucid other moments confused, as is the case when the end is near. His pain was high and his wife was not sure how to handle this so I sort of took over and advised the head nurse that he needed more than Panadol - she came with morphine and administered the needed quantity. He had stopped food intake and was only taking a little water at this stage - the sort of shut down stage had started a week earlier and I could see the signs that he was at best left a day or two at most. He died at 5.30. In the afternoon today.
There are more things to do and I have been asked to speak at his funeral - as I am retired I am loathe to get in the way of the current vicar. But I will do what is needed with his agreement. And so I ask the question, which I have asked all my life.” what really matters”?.
Care and friendship cannot be bought it is just given and received however I am very conscious of the material needs of people today and for some its a great struggle to survive in the current climate of the economy and so these days my hobby, business or whatever you want to call it is internet marketing. And a key reason is to make money, which I am doing however my prime purpose is to train others in how to make a dollar. I want to do this for those who cannot do anything else because of their circumstances. Their are so many who with just an extra 200 dollars a week could pay for a decent rental place or could put better food on the table or just pay the weekly fuel bill for their car. These folk are single mothers, students, aged pensioners etc.
And so what matters is sharing knowledge that will benefit others so that they can make headway in life. Being a millionaire is not so important as being able to get through week without being stressed to the point of breakdown and I do know so many in this situation
One thing I have learned the hard way is that while you may give to charity it is unwise to give to others without some response on their part. Even for those who are struggling I do expect some return for what they receive. It may be nominal but it is part of a healthy business equation. If we do not ask others to put return energy into what they receive we will diminish them and furthermore they will not value what is given to them and added to that they will not work at what is before them.
So My blog offers free articles about what works for me and then also affiliate programs which cost money but which I have used and found successful in building a business. Eventually I will set up live classes in my community and make available my training and knowledge for those who cannot afford many hundreds of dollars that most coaches charge - but there will be a charge and that will give motivation and commitment to any training that is received.
I currently conduct life-coaching classes in my community and the model there is a fee for service. I started out not charging and discovered that the same material being presented by other coaches was costed at many hundreds of dollars and I also discovered that the classes that I conducted were taken rather lightly but once the cost factor came in there was an accompanying commitment to the training.
So what really matters? For me at this time it is to equip those who have few resources to make headway in life. It is to encourage and fan to life their motivation and see the joy in their faces when they make incomes from their efforts through the training I give.
In all this process I will make money and I like that I enjoy the current incomes I am generating and I love spending it but I never fall in love with the income it is simply a means to an end and that end is ultimately to serve others as well as myself.
To close with a well know saying “love your neighbour as yourself” and you will notice that you are to love yourself because if you don’t do this you will dry up the joy of helping others.
Regards Leonard